For individuals and couples living in Colorado, A Love Beyond Borders
(LBB) offers the necessary homestudy and post adoption
services that will help you satisfy the Colorado state adoption laws
and prepare you for a domestic or international adoption. We provide
services to clients throughout the State of Colorado. These services
include adoptive home study (also referred to as family assessment),
pre-adoption education, and post adoption services, validation of
foreign adoption.
We provide a variety of homestudy types including those for domestic
adoptions, kinship adoptions, designated adoption, court-ordered home
studies, step-parent adoption, second-parent adoption, international
home studies and Hague-Convention compliant home study. Timeline and
fees may vary depending upon the service provided.
The Homestudy or Family
Assessment:
A Colorado statute requires all Colorado adoptive families preparing to
adopt to have a current approved family assessment/hom
e
study from a licensed child placement agency such as A Love Beyond
Borders. We are licensed to do domestic and international home study's
including home studies for Hague-Convention countries. LBB is full
service and can provide the home study and child placement for an
international adoption or domestic kinship or designated adoption, or
can provide only the home study and post adoption services if you
choose to work with a licensed agency outside of Colorado. Independent
adoptions are, by law, not allowed for residents of Colorado. We
collaborate with licensed agencies throughout the US and would be happy
to collaborate with your out of state placement agency.
What exactly is an
adoption home study?
The adoption home study is a detailed written report of your family
compiled and prepared by a social worker. LBB hires experienced social
workers and case workers with significant professional experience in
adoption and family therapy. Most are adoptive parents and seek to make
the home study experience a pleasant, collaborative learning experience
for you.
The typical home study can take one to three or more months for a
domestic or international home study. A Hague-compliant home study may
take 4-5 months to complete depending upon several factors, mainly
determined by the adoptive family. The adoption home study requires the
prospective adoptive family to gather different documents, answer
several questions, and explore their reasons for adopting. Through a
series of visits and interviews the social worker can get a complete
picture of who you are and what life is like in your family. The
adoption home study is a part of the decision making process for both
the prospective family and the workers. Not only can the adoption home
study help the worker place a child into your home who would best fit
into your family, but help the family and the worker decide if now is a
good time for your family to adopt.
LBB
views the family assessment
process as an important educational experience in which you build a
relationship with a professional adoption worker who is trained in the
issues of adoption. You will discuss your childhood and life
experiences, your marital relationship, your personal strengths and
weaknesses, and your dreams for the future, among other
topics. It is helpful to think of the process as a
cooperative effort between you and your adoption worker in which you
will openly and honestly assess who you are, what you want, and your
ability to successfully adopt – and whether adoption is a good idea for
you at this time.
Entering into the family assessment process does
not guarantee that your family assessment will be approved.
Please be reassured that in most cases where there
is a decision not to continue it is usually the family who makes the
decision after exploring adoption with their adoption worker. But if at
any time during the family assessment your adoption worker believes
that the agency will not be able to recommend you for approval for an
adoptive placement, her concerns will be discussed with you.
If there are issues that need closer assessment
than is normally included in the adoption process, the agency may ask
you, at your expense, to supplement the family assessment with an
independent psychological or marital evaluation with an agency-referred
professional.
When the
interviews are completed and the required documents submitted, your
adoption worker prepares a written family assessment and submits it to
the Placement Supervisor. The Placement Supervisor will
review your family assessment with the supporting documents, and then
will advise you as to whether the agency will be able to place an
adoptive child in your home.
Once approved by our placement supervisor, your
family assessment is sent to the State of Colorado for final review and
approval. If
you are adopting internationally, once approved by the state, we
forward it to USCIS along with the immigration petitions you provide to
us. Final approval by USCIS (immigration) is the issuance of your
I-171H.
State and USCIS approval in Colorado takes --on
average -- six to ten weeks in addition to the homestudy evaluation
time.
Pre-Adoption Education:
As
part of your preparation for adoption, you will receive education that
will help make your adoption process and most especially enhance your
parenting skills unique to adoption issues. The state of Colorado
now requires prospective adoptive parents complete a minimum of 16 Core
hours of pre-adoption education in person, and up to 24 hours of
training for international or special needs adoptions which will
include attending group trainings, taking on-line training, reading
books, watching videos, or doing individual research.
ALL education requirements must be completed before placement
of the child. A Love Beyond Borders contracts with Colorado
Adoption Consultants
to provide all your pre-adoption education and training needs.
Education
class schedule for Fall of 2010 is as follows: September 17 & 18th
and November 12th & 13th
Click
HERE
for information on the program, topics, location, etc. All payments and
registration forms should be sent to A Love Beyond Borders in order to
reserve your seat. Space is limited, don’t delay!
Click
HERE
to download the class registration form.
In addition to the education
we provide, we encourage you explore these topics on your own via the
internet, adoption support groups, etc.
Some of the subjects to be
covered in your pre-adoption education:
- Attachment and bonding
-
Loss,
grief and adoption
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Transracial parenting
-
Adoption as a lifelong issue
-
Child
development
-
Boundary
setting and discipline
-
Parenting
a child of a different culture
-
Fetal
Alcohol Syndrome
-
Medical
and emotional issues related to international adoption
-
Adoption issues of personal interest
Post Adoption Reports and
Services:
Colorado requires
post-placement supervision for all adoptions to be finalized or
validated in Colorado. This excludes international adoptions where the
adoption was finalized abroad (when both parents met the child prior to
the adoption) and where the adoptive country does not require
them. However, LBB believes that as a child placement agency
it is best practice for our social worker to meet with the adoptive
family at least twice upon arrival of the child to the home. This is
especially important for a family adopting a child older than 12
months, because adjustment may be more difficult on the child and newly
expanded family. We will be able to assist you through this transition
time. For this reason we ask our
homestudy clients to agree to a minimum of two post adoption visits
after the child arrives home.
Your post-adoptive
commitment to your child’s country may include a need for additional
post-placement home visits for an extended period of time, which we
will be happy to provide for an additional fee. For this service we
provide the additional post placement visits and certified reports if
required by the adoptive country. Translation assistance may
be available for an additional charge.
The same adoption worker who
completed your family assessment will usually work with you in
post-adoption. She will visit with you and your child after
placement, plus provide reasonable phone support.
For those who are
experiencing severe post-placement problems, referrals will be made to
appropriate professional resources.
Additional services
available:
When your adoption is
complete in the foreign country there are still many loose ends that
need to be completed. Although you may be ready to set aside additional
paperwork at this point, we strongly encourage adoptive families to tie
up these loose ends earlier rather than later. You may complete these
on your own, or for an additional fee LBB will be pleased to assist you.
Some additional items:
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Validation of your
international adoption in a Colorado court. It is affordable
to validate your child's foreign adoption in Colorado, and LBB requires
it of all Colorado residents. A Love Beyond Borders has experience in
validating (or re-adoption as some may refer to it) foreign adoptions,
and our fees are very reasonable in comparison. Some families may
choose to hire an attorney or even attempt the validation themselves.
The petitions for validation of your child's foreign adoption are filed
in either your county of residence or the county of your homestudy
agency.
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File for your
child's Colorado birth certificate. LBB will be happy to
file for your child's Colorado Registry of Foreign Birth (basically
like a birth certificate which will list the birth country) upon
finalization of your county validation. This service is nominal and
usually a part of the validation services package.
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Fulfillment of
additional post-adoption requirements of your adoptive
country, if any (above the basic visits required by LBB). This includes
additional home visits and filing of certified reports to the foreign
country or your placement agency (if not LBB).
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Counseling:
Any additional counseling provided by one of our social workers beyond
the basic post adoption visits for children and families in need. If
you choose to work with a counselor or specialist unaffiliated with
LBB, LBB can provide you with a list of qualified professionals to meet
you and your child's needs. We are well-connected to the adoption
professionals throughout Colorado and can provide recommendations to
any number of professionals.